Random Question Time

In a culture where marriages are arranged for money or power or other things, what would you (current-you, not hypothetical other-culture-you) think about affairs?

Would it change if the marriage-ees had a little say in who they married, but not final say?

Another question!

If innocent is the opposite of guilty, would someone who doesn't feel guilty about whatever they did still be an innocent, then?

Yes, theoretically, this could be extended to make psychopaths be innocents, which is actually something I think has been covered rather extensively in literature. But I mean it in a more fantasy sense, like all the magical items and creatures and tests that talk about somebody of "innocent heart" or whatever, if somebody'd done bad things but didn't feel guilty, would that be a way around them?